Wednesday, June 4, 2008
He's just not that into you
Well well to all the women out there who are wasting their time waiting for a telephone call or thinking of the mixed signals that the guy is giving you when he avoids you after you have your first date, think about getting this self help book, its excellent, for those who are single, dating or heart broken, maybe its not that bad afterall! Btw, this could be for men when women show signs like that too!
Here's a piece of advice from Bill Rancic, the Apprentice winner @ the Oprah Winfrey Show:
The Apprentice winner and bachelor Bill Rancic has some examples of how a woman can tell when a guy really is into her.
"It's a good sign when a guy is willing to kiss you in public and show affection to you in public," Bill says. "Or, he'll take you to high profile places. If he's taking you to the busiest steak house, you know, in the city, that's a pretty good sign."
Bill says the oldest excuse in the book is: "I'm too busy."
"Let me tell you, Oprah, no one is busier than I am," Bill says. "I go between Chicago and New York each week. And when I'm really into a girl, I'm willing to put 'The Donald' on hold to take
her call."
Some suggestions on Oprah's website, so take a look, ive taken what you girls and boys need to know when to let go and start finding someone that is going to treat u good:
Standard-Raising Suggestions
I will not go out with a man who:
(a) Keeps me waiting by the phone (b) Is not sure he wants to date me (c) Makes me feel sexually undesirable (d) Drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes me uncomfortable (e) Fears talking about our future (f) Is married
I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me or who is not clearly a good, kind, loving person.
Liberating Vocabulary
Friend: A person who is your pal. What it generally means in relationships is he's just not that into you.
Busy: Busy means I'm the President of the United States. I'm an astronaut and I'm on another planet. I'm in a really successful band. What it means in relationships is, yeah, I'm just not that into you.
Bad boy: A bad boy is just a bad boy. Stay away. If you're dating somebody that's a bad boy, that's just your fault. If you say "my boyfriend's kind of a bad boy," I feel bad for you. If you say, "I like bad boys" well, then I don't feel bad for you. If you say, "I like things that don't work." Okay, good for you. Generally, guys with low self-esteem aren't worth the trouble. They're just not.
"Oprah says" The Dog PoundQuestion:
So how do you screen for dogs?
Answer: You just don't let him be a dog. Your standards are so high you don't let him be a dog. You can't be played if you're not playing. What I want to say that is so key for everybody to get. Nobody—even if a dog has been a dog. He has been head of the pound. Head of the dog pound. If he meets the right person, he will change his dog pound ways. He just will.
Question: How can I tell if he thinks I'm worth it?
Answer: If the guy thinks you're worth it, he will do whatever is necessary if he thinks you're worth it. All the guys are nodding. Because he raised the bar and he wants to raise the bar to meet you where you are, if he thinks you're worth it. If he doesn't, then he doesn't. He's just not that into you. And you—we all—should have another standard.
Basically girls, if a guy thinks that you are worth it, he will do what it takes in order to have a happy relationship with you. If not, he's just not that into you girl. Vice versa for the guys too!
The movie is coming out in NOvember by the way, so till than get the book and start chewing its pages!
love nicole
6/04/2008 09:17:00 PM
the missy*
Nicole MOster
Currently employed by MontBlanc Boutique Melbourne
Graduated from the University of Queensland Business Management majoring in International Business.
my hearts*
Love.Elegance.Scents.Florals.
My charms.
Globetrotting around the world.
My babes and hunks
Smelling nice.
Soufflé, all French Desserts, fresh bread, Japanses cuisine
My homes HongKong, Australia
Orchids, Roses, Edelweiss, Peonies
SOund of Music, Pirates of the Carribean
Bunnies bunnies bunnies
Cuddly Forever Friends bears big and small
To Paris with him.
my crosses*
People who always have their head up in the clouds.
Plain meaness from the heart.
Currently.....*
Reading - Eckhart Tolle - A New Earth
my dreams*
Graduate
A ticket to globetrott Paris, France,Greek Islands, Europe with him
Elsa Peretti Letter cursive "n" pendent. Heart lock charms
Bang & Olufsen Speakers
An personalised photo Anya Hindmarch bag
Paiget G33U0036, G38U1900
Damier canvas Azur Alexandra wallet
small ring agenda in damier canvas or Ivoire epi leather
Eugenie Wallet in Ivoire Epi Leather
Speedy 30 in Damier Canvas in Azur
L'OCCITANE's shea butter and almond range
Lladró Porcelain
La Maison Goyard bags and diaries, passport holder in white print The allure brown K800i
